The Origin of Gift Themes for Wedding Anniversaries
Weddings symbolize a pivotal milestone in the lives of couples, where cherished loved ones unite to revel in the pure bliss and elation shared by the couple. Wedding anniversaries, on the other hand, present flawless occasions to honor the profound love shared between two individuals, commemorating the unwavering joy they find in one another’s presence, despite the challenges and hardships faced throughout their marital voyage.
Across various societies, the commemoration of the wedding anniversary holds immense significance, prompting heartfelt and memorable celebrations. It serves as a gentle reminder of the sacred bond between couples, inspiring them to embark on a quest for the ideal present that embodies deep symbolism and significance for their beloved spouse or the harmonious duo.
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OUR HIGHLY SOUGHT-AFTER
As couples embark on the first few years of their marital journey, finding a suitable gift is a breeze, considering their need for essential items. However, as time goes by and their marriage matures, conjuring up an idea for a cherished and valued gift becomes a challenging task.
Celebratory gift-giving during the commemoration of a wedding anniversary finds its roots intertwined with the enchanting medieval era. Within the realm of the Holy Roman Empire, devoted husbands would bestow upon their beloved wives a resplendent silver garland to honor the milestone of their 25th anniversary, while a magnificent golden wreath awaited them upon reaching the extraordinary achievement of 50 years of matrimonial bliss.
During the roaring 1920s, Emily Post, an imaginative American writer, set out on a quest to unravel the perplexity of selecting the perfect anniversary gift. Her solution? She meticulously compiled a collection of anniversary themes in a groundbreaking book called “Etiquette”, which saw the light of day in 1922. However, it’s important to note that only a select few anniversary years made the cut for inclusion in the book. Specifically, the first and fifth anniversaries, followed by every fifth year leading up to the grand milestone of the 25th wedding anniversary. Fast forward to 1937, when the American National Retail Jeweler Association decided to give this tradition a facelift. They expanded the list to encompass all years up to the 14th anniversary, and every 5th year thereafter, all the way up to the golden jubilee of 50 years of wedded bliss. These themes became known as the traditional companions for each marital year. But, as times changed, so did the need for a more contemporary approach. Thus, a newfangled list was born, linking every anniversary year from 1 to 30 with its own unique theme or material. And to keep things exciting, this new tradition continues every fifth year, stretching all the way to an astonishing 75 years of matrimonial commitment.
Additional Options for Anniversary Presents – Gemstones, Hues, and Blooms.
In addition to traditional and contemporary gifts, anniversary years are also represented by flowers, colors, and gemstones. The American Gem Trade Association publishes a list of gemstones associated with marital years 1 to 25, and every 5th year up to the 60th anniversary, in their Information Manual on Gemstones. However, certain countries propose different gemstones for specific anniversary years, which are detailed in our table.
Marital years of various hues and floral connections are often intertwined, although their origins may differ. Nonetheless, the rose is universally regarded as an impeccable alternative for any anniversary, particularly if a woman holds a deep affection for these blossoms, as its exquisite hue can harmonize with the symbolic color of the respective anniversary year.
Discover our comprehensive compilation of the enchanting and modern motifs linked to every anniversary year. Delve deeper into the treasure trove of knowledge below the table, aiding your quest for the perfect anniversary gift, whether it be for your beloved partner or a cherished couple.
Wedding Anniversary Occasion |
Traditional Theme |
Modern Theme |
Colour |
Gemstone |
Anniversary Gift Suggestions |
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1st Year |
Paper |
Clocks |
Gold; Yellow |
Gold Jewellery (no stone specified) Alternate Stone: Peridot; Pearl |
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2nd Year |
Cotton |
China |
Red |
Garnet Alternate Stone: Rose Quartz |
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3rd Year |
Leather |
Crystal/Glass |
Jade; White |
Pearl Alternate Stone: Moonstone; Crystal; Jade |
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4th Year |
Linen; Silk (UK) Fruit/Flowers (US) |
Appliances (electrical) |
Blue; Green |
Blue Topaz Alternate Stone: Blue Zircon; Amethyst |
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5th Year |
Wood |
Silverware |
Blue; Pink; Turquoise |
Sapphire Alternate Stone: Pink Tourmaline; Rose Quartz; Turquoise |
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6th Year |
Candy (UK) Iron (US) |
Wood |
Purple; White; Turquoise |
Amethyst Alternate Stone: Garnet; Turquoise |
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7th Year |
Wool (UK) Copper (US) |
Brass; Desk Sets |
Yellow; Off-White |
Onyx Alternate Stone: Yellow Sapphire; Copper; Lapis Lazuli |
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8th Year |
Salt (UK) Bronze; Pottery (US) |
Linen; Lace |
Bronze |
Tourmaline Alternate Stone: Tanzanite; Bronze; Aventurine |
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9th Year |
Copper (UK) Willow; Pottery (US) |
Leather |
Terracotta |
Lapis Lazuli Alternate Stone: Tiger Eye; Andalusite |
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10th Year |
Tin (US & UK) Aluminum (US); |
Diamond Jewellery |
Silver; Blue |
Diamond Alternate Stone: Crystal; Onyx; Green Tourmaline |
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11th Year |
Steel |
Fashion Jewellery; Accessories |
Turquoise |
Turquoise Alternate Stone: Hematite |
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12th Year |
Linen; Silk (UK) Home Décor (US) |
Pearls |
Oyster-White |
Jade Alternate Stone: Agate; Pearl; Garnet; Tsavorite |
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13th Year |
Lace |
Textiles; Furs |
White |
Citrine Alternate Stone: Moonstone; Malachite; Opal |
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14th Year |
Ivory or Elephant *** |
Gold Jewellery |
Ivory |
Opal Alternate Stone: Ivory; Gold; Kunzite; Moss Agate |
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15th Year |
Crystal |
Watches |
Red |
Ruby Alternate Stone: Rhodolite; Blue Sapphire |
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16th Year |
Silverware |
Silver |
Peridot Alternate Stone: Aquamarine; Golden Topaz |
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17th Year |
Furniture |
Yellow Alternate Stone: Amethyst; Citrine; Pink Tourmaline; Watch |
Carnelian |
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18th Year |
Porcelain |
Blue |
Cat’s Eye Alternate Stone: Opal; Aquamarine |
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19th Year |
Bronze |
Bronze |
Aquamarine Alternate Stone: Topaz; Golden Beryl |
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20th Year |
China |
Platinum |
Emerald Alternate Stone: Platinum |
Emerald-Green; White |
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21st Year |
Brass; Nickel |
Orange |
Iolite |
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22nd Year |
Copper |
Green |
Spinel |
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23rd Year |
Silver Plate |
Silver |
Imperial Topaz Alternate Stone: Sapphire |
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24th Year |
Opal (US) |
Musical Instruments |
Lavender |
Tanzanite |
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25th Year |
Silver |
Silver |
Silver Jewellery (no specific stone) |
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26th Year |
Pictures |
NA |
NA |
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27th Year |
Sculptures |
NA |
NA |
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28th Year |
Orchids |
Lavender |
Alternate Stone: Amethyst; Orchid Tourmaline |
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29th Year |
Furniture |
NA |
NA |
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30th Year |
Pearl |
Diamond |
Green |
Pearl Alternate Stone: Diamond; Jade |
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35th Year |
Coral (US & UK); Jade (US) |
Jade |
Coral |
Emerald Alternate Stone: Coral; Jade |
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40th Year |
Ruby |
Red |
Ruby |
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45th Year |
Sapphire |
Blue |
Sapphire Alternate Stone: Alexandrite |
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50th Year |
Gold |
Gold |
Gold (no specific stone) Alternate Stone: Gold or Imperial Topaz |
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55th Year |
Emerald |
Emerald-Green |
Alexandrite Alternate Stone: Emerald |
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60th Year |
Diamond |
Diamond-White |
Diamond |
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*** Despite its long-standing association with the 14th wedding anniversary, ivory has become an ethically questionable option in light of the alarming decline in elephant populations. Rather than opting for this controversial material, a more fitting alternative would be to choose gifts that embrace an elephant theme.
Selecting a Present
When you gaze upon our table, behold a comprehensive compendium of every anniversary year, delineating both traditional and contemporary themes, alongside the dazzling gemstones, vibrant hues, and blooming floral symbols associated with each year. Delve deeper into the abyss of knowledge by simply clicking the link nestled in the final column of each year. Behold, here lies a trove of information spanning from the first year of matrimony to the glorious 30th year, and thereafter, every quinquennial milestone until the resplendent 60th year of wedded bliss. Immerse yourself in the captivating backstory of each symbolic motif, coupled with any supplementary facets pertaining to the anniversary, and behold an abundance of gift suggestions for every momentous occasion. Prepare to embark on an exhilarating journey of inspiration, where uncovering the ultimate anniversary treasure becomes an effortless endeavor.
* Clicking on the link in the final column of every anniversary year reveals a plethora of intricate explanations about the floral symbol.
When it comes to selecting an anniversary gift, throw away the rulebook and let the recipient’s preferences be your guiding light. Seek out a present that will hold a special place in their heart.
It is worth mentioning that beyond the 20-year mark, the customary gifts linked to each marital year tend to fade away, yet a contemporary theme has been established for every year leading up to the 30th anniversary. This signifies the importance of upholding love and dedication as a couple navigates through the journey of married life. Additionally, a few years lack a specific floral symbol, gemstone, or color to represent them. Nevertheless, we are delighted to offer practical gift suggestions for every milestone in the journey of matrimony.
Additionally, it’s worth mentioning that various nations may follow distinct gift themes. Upon glancing at the table, one can easily discern the origin of the gift suggestions, whether they stem from the UK or the United States.
Should you be looking for advice about romantic activities to enjoy on your anniversary, check out our list of 37 exciting suggestions.